Questioning your relationship with alcohol?

You don’t need another label.
You need support that meets you where you are.

The ReDefining Sober™ App helps you build a healthier relationship with alcohol—without shame, labels, or rigid rules.

Whether you’re questioning your drinking, trying to drink less, or already alcohol-free, you’ll find personalized guidance and compassionate support that meets you exactly where you are.

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In about 2 minutes, discover the ReDefining Sober™ path designed for where you are today.

ReDefining Sober™ App

Personalized support that grows with you

Whether you’re just getting curious or have been alcohol-free for years, the app adapts to where you are—not where someone else thinks you should be.

  • Daily Check-ins
  • Guided Journaling and Audio Reflections
  • Personalized Path
  • Progress Tracking
  • Encouragement when you need it most
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Always without shame, judgment, or rigid rules.
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Your Personalized Journey

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Answer a few simple questions so we can meet you exactly where you are today.

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Receive a personalized path built around your goals, pace, and the life you want to create.

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Track What Matters

Track the progress that matters to you and celebrate every meaningful step forward.

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More Than Changing Your Drinking.
Alcohol may be the reason you arrived here, but it definitely isn’t the whole story.
Whether you’re questioning your drinking, trying to drink less, or already alcohol-free, this work is about so much more than alcohol.
It’s about reconnecting with yourself, learning to trust yourself again, and creating a life that feels aligned, grounded, and fully your own.

When your life feels good, alcohol stops being the answer.

A Different Conversation Starts Here.

For too long, we’ve celebrated drinking and whispered about sobriety.

We’ve treated alcohol as the expectation—and choosing not to drink as something people have to explain.

We are changing the conversation around alcohol because ReDefining Sober is built on a different belief.

What ReDefining Sober™ Stands For

A different conversation starts with different values.


Compassion

We replace judgment with curiosity.

Lasting change begins when you feel safe enough to tell yourself the truth.

Freedom

Your path is yours.

Whether you drink less, stop drinking, or simply become more intentional, you get to define success for yourself.

Hope

Every Small Step Matters

Because the goal isn’t just changing your drinking—it’s creating a life you don’t want to escape from.
Danielle Elliott Smith ReDefining Sober


Learn more about Danielle

How to work with me

Danielle’s Story

Seven years ago, I walked into treatment believing alcohol was the problem. What I discovered was that alcohol was only part of my story.

Recovery gave me something I never expected: the chance to reconnect with myself. To learn self-trust. To heal shame. To build a life I didn’t want to escape from.

As I shared my journey, I realized so many people were quietly asking the same questions I once did.

“Do I have to hit rock bottom?”

“Can I change my relationship with alcohol without fitting into someone else’s definition of recovery or sobriety?”

“What if I just want to feel better?”

That’s why I created ReDefining Sober™.

Not to tell people whether they should drink or not drink—but to give them a safe place to ask honest questions, explore what feels right for them, and build a healthier relationship with alcohol without shame, labels, or rigid rules.

Today, through coaching, speaking, my podcast, and the ReDefining Sober™ app, my mission is simple:

To help people reconnect with themselves and create lives they don’t want to escape from.

  • Having an app that sends me reminders, keeps me accountable, and gently nudges me when I need it most has been a game changer.
    But what makes Danielle’s app truly special isn’t just the features, it’s HER. Her advice, practical tips, and encouragement met me exactly where I was.
    Tina
    Tina H.
    Verified Review
  • “Danielle has been so selfless with her time and insights and her fierce encouragement has made me feel like this life is actually possible. Hearing and seeing her strength, perspective and success in life has given me so much hope and encouragement.”
    Caitlin K.
    Client
  • Danielle is the kind of person who changes you forever once your paths cross. When Danielle believes in you—and she believes in everyone she meets—you better be ready. Even if you can’t see it in yourself, she’ll see your potential and won’t rest until you believe in it with every part of your being.
    Erin
    Erin S.
    Verified Review

You Might be here because…

You’ve started wondering if alcohol is taking up more space in your life than you’d like.

You want to drink less—but don’t know where to begin.

You want a space that’s free of shame, pressure, or black-and-white thinking

You’ve stopped drinking and are wondering, “Now What?”

You’re tired of feeling disconnected from yourself.

If any of this sounds familiar…You’re in the right place.
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What Working with me looks like:

Real, compassionate conversations—no judgment, just honesty and curiosity

Tools to reconnect with your intuition and build self-trust

Support through the messy middle—because trans-formation isn’t linear

Guidance rooted in empowerment, not fear

A space to rise into the most aligned version of yourself

No Shame. No Judgement. No Labels.

You don’t have to have it all figured out… You just have to be willing to begin

FAQs

Nope. You don’t have to be sober, and this isn’t about labels. You might be questioning your relationship with alcohol, taking a break, or just exploring new ways to feel more aligned and in control. Wherever you are is the perfect place to start.

While therapy often focuses on healing the past, coaching is more about supporting you in the present and helping you move toward the future you want.

I’m not a licensed therapist or medical provider, and this work isn’t a substitute for therapy or clinical care. If you’re currently working with a therapist, coaching can be a really beautiful complement to that work.

Each session is a safe, supportive space where we explore what’s coming up for you—whether it’s around alcohol, identity, confidence, boundaries, or anything else that feels connected. I’ll ask powerful questions, offer reflections, and support you in listening to your own inner wisdom.

That’s completely okay. Many people come to coaching unsure of what they want—only knowing that something feels off. Together, we’ll create space to explore your desires, reconnect with your intuition, and get clear on what alignment looks like for you. You may want to explore the ReDefining Sober™ App first.

You’re not alone. Change is a process, not a straight line. This work is about progress, not perfection. Every time you show up for yourself, you’re building something new—and I’m here to walk with you through it. The ReDefining Sober™ App is a great place to begin as well.

I’m warm, intuitive, and deeply present. I create a space where you feel safe to be honest—without judgment, pressure, or expectation. I’ll ask powerful questions, reflect back what I notice, and gently guide you toward clarity and confidence. My style is a blend of soul and strategy: thoughtful, grounded, and always led by what feels true for you.



The ReDefining Sober App has options for annual (under $200) and quarterly (less than $20/month).

Simple: start by heading to the app to take your free, 2 minute, no obligation quiz to get your personalized plan. If you subscribe and decide it’s not for you within 7 days, you are eligible fore a refund. Alternatively – if you’d like to work with me one-on-one, start with a free discovery call. We’ll talk about what you’re navigating, where you want to go, and whether coaching together feels aligned. If it’s a yes, I’ll walk you through the next steps.

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